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Seek to understand before you judge
It is easy to make assumptions about the behavior or actions of others--especially if they behave in ways we don’t like. These assumptions can lead to distrust, anger, and even hate. However, if we try to understand the motivation behind the behavior and see the situation from the other person’s point of view, it takes some of the emotion out of our reaction. It might not change our opinion about the behavior but it will help us deal with it more calmly. It might even lead to
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Apr 22, 20251 min read
Embrace today
Make the most of it. Treat it like the gift it is and savor every moment. If you do that every day, you'll enjoy a much more fulfilling life.
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Apr 8, 20251 min read
Life shrinks or expandsin proportion to one's courage.--Anais Nin
Stepping outside your comfort zone requires courage, and that can lead to new experiences and more social connections.
Having the courage to stand up for what you believe is right takes you to another level because it enhances your self-respect. That not only empowers you but commands respect from others too, thereby increasing the opportunities available to you.
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Apr 1, 20251 min read
Practice Integrity
There is more to this than just being honest with others. It also means being ethical and having strong moral principles that you adhere to regardless of external pressure.
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Mar 25, 20251 min read
Never underestimate the power of a good intention.
Practicing kindness. Giving even a little time or money to a good cause. Reaching out to check on a friend even if you're afraid they're too busy to talk to you. These all have the power to make a positive difference--especially when they come from the heart.
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Feb 26, 20251 min read
Imagine the possibilities!
This is a fun reminder to open your mind to new opportunities.
It is also helpful during those times when you are feeling stuck or trapped. Instead of being focused on what’s not working, expand your view to imagine what might work.
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Feb 19, 20251 min read
You don't have to be perfect to be lovable
Just being mostly kind and considerate counts for a lot, especially if you apologize when you’re not.
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Feb 12, 20251 min read
Action is a great antidote to fear
Feeling afraid of confrontation, rejection, failure, etc.? Those fears aren’t going to go away on their own. Combat those fears by taking action. Start by figuring out how to maximize your potential for success and then forge ahead.
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Jan 29, 20251 min read
Control what you can; make peace with the rest
This is not an excuse to do nothing but rather a way to avoid stressing over things you can't change.
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Jan 15, 20251 min read
Incremental progress is better than no progress at all.
Frustrated because you're not making as much progress on a project or a goal as you'd like? Hey! At least you are making some progress! Keep up the good work!
Lynda K Giddens
Jan 8, 20251 min read
Open your heart; not only to give but also to receive
It's not how much we give or receive that matters. Just be sure to present your gifts with an open heart and allow the gifts that you receive to warm your heart.
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Dec 18, 20241 min read
Open your arms tobeautiful moments andthey will come to you
There are lots of beautiful moments to be found in this world. You just have to be open to experiencing them.
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Dec 11, 20241 min read
Express Appreciation
Take time to be grateful and be sure to express your appreciation to others; for the little things as well as the big things.
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Nov 29, 20241 min read


Now is the Time
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Smile!
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Today is the First Day of the Rest of Your Life
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Practice Optimism
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Choose Your Attitude
You can’t change your past. You’ve got only so much control over your future. And, if you are like most of us, you have to do things...
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Look on the Bright Side
You might think that you have to have a happy life before you can look on the bright side of it, but it is actually the other way around....
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Celebrate Your Successes
Celebrating your successes helps you to feel good about yourself, which is a key requirement for living a happier life. Most of us are...
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